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MOTHER - A SELFLESS RELATION

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Hello all, We live with many relationships, but there is no one like a mother; the most loving and caring person in the world. All others are made of the same elements, but the mother is made with some special qualities like love, care, sacrifice, patience, humility, devotion, guidance, and selflessness. She is our first ever contact in the world. She defines the world to us when we are in her lap. She loves us to grow, teaches us to find new ways, advises us to build our character, forbids us from going into false ways, and keeps praying for us throughout her entire life. We cannot find such a person who has no ambition to get back in return for her sacrifices. Today is Mother’s Day, but we should give all our days to our mother so that she can feel proud of what she has brought up; whatever she taught us is not wasted yet. In our journey in life, we meet so many people who are dissimilar from each other, and their priorities are also not the same. But a mother’s love is...

CHOOSE YOUR WAY

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Hello all, Actually, our upbringing is a little bit complicated and tricky in South Asia; parents put their incomplete desires onto their children in the form of toys or fun-based activities. Children learn and absorb from their surroundings. Whatever parents provide them, they make up their minds accordingly. Our incomplete desires or unachieved goals are like wanting to be a doctor, singer, architect, or engineer, but circumstances lead us to be a banker, teacher, or a 9-to-5 employee. So we made up our minds to fulfill this ambition in our children.  As parents, we manipulate our children to promote their interests according to our will. These activities draw the attention of the raw mind of a growing kid, and later they become keen on this behavior. Well, I am not saying that these are not good activities; sometimes it is necessary, but not always. My concern is that we restrict them to a few things and set patterns. I think that is the reason in the third world that t...