Posts

Showing posts with the label Children

MOTHER - A SELFLESS RELATION

Image
Hello all, We live with many relationships but there is no one like a mother; the most loving and caring person in the world. All other are made of the same elements but the mother was made with some special like love, care, sacrifice, patience, humbleness, devotion, guidance, and selflessness. She is our first ever contact in the world. She defines the world to us when we are in her lap. She loves us to grow, teaches us to find new ways, advises us to build our character, forbids us from going to false ways, and keeps praying for us in her entire life. We cannot find such a person that has no ambition to get back in return for her sacrifices. Today, it is mother’s day but we should give all our days to our mother so that she could feel proud of her brought up; whatever she taught us is not wasted yet. In our journey in life, we meet so many people who are dissimilar from each other and their priorities are also not the same. But a mother’s love is always the same towards...

CHOOSE YOUR WAY

Image
Hello all, Actually, our brought up is a little bit complicated and tricky in South Asia, parents put their incomplete desires to their children in the shape of toys or fun-based activities. Children learn and absorb from their surroundings. Whatever parents provide them, they made up their minds accordingly. Our incomplete desires or unachieved goals are like we want to be a doctor, singer, architect, or engineer but circumstances lead us to be a banker, teacher, or a 9 to 5 employee. So we made up our mind to complete this ambition in our children.  As parents, we manipulate our children to promote their interests according to our will. These activities draw the attention of a raw mind of a growing kid and later they became keen on this behavior. Well, I am not saying that these are not good activities; sometimes it is necessary but not always. My concern is that we make them restricted to a few things and set patterns. I think that is the reason in the third world, that...