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SELF GROOMING

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Hello all, Change is a necessary element of our lives; it has a vital effect on seasons, people, days, and nights. Many people are revolutionary in nature and innovative in their lives. These types of people love to change themselves perfectly. This urge for change and perfectionism is the key to success and leads us to the way of self-grooming. These words like self-grooming, revolution, ambition, etc. are undoubtedly big ones to say but when we bring them into our lives, they do not require much effort from a willing person. The introduction of the world to a newborn baby is the people, their behaviors, atmosphere, and surroundings.  Sometimes these things and the atmosphere are good, many times bad, and a few times awesome. We absorb our atmosphere in us and show our actions being manipulated by these surroundings. These are afterward called our habits, whether they are good or bad. After a little time in this, many of us go to school, high school, colleges, a...

WATER SCARCITY

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Hello all, We have almost 2/3 of our planet covered with water, but still, we are facing water scarcity. Well, it is a shortage of fresh drinking water that is required to fulfill our nutritional needs and health. According to various surveys, around 1.2 billion people are facing this situation. At a rough count, it is almost 1/5 of the total world population. People living in urban and remote areas both are facing the problem in different ways but in remote areas, it is worse. Mostly in remote areas, there is no water filtration system available to fulfill their needs. This severe condition constrains them to use polluted and unhygienic water from ponds, canals, and rivers. Ponds appear with rainwater; they are bowl-shaped or pool-type area that collects the water during the rainy season. Both animals and humans drink and use the water from the same place, leading to different diseases. An old way of obtaining a water source is to dig a well for freshwater but it is no...

CHOOSE YOUR WAY

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Hello all, Actually, our upbringing is a little bit complicated and tricky in South Asia; parents put their incomplete desires onto their children in the form of toys or fun-based activities. Children learn and absorb from their surroundings. Whatever parents provide them, they make up their minds accordingly. Our incomplete desires or unachieved goals are like wanting to be a doctor, singer, architect, or engineer, but circumstances lead us to be a banker, teacher, or a 9-to-5 employee. So we made up our minds to fulfill this ambition in our children.  As parents, we manipulate our children to promote their interests according to our will. These activities draw the attention of the raw mind of a growing kid, and later they become keen on this behavior. Well, I am not saying that these are not good activities; sometimes it is necessary, but not always. My concern is that we restrict them to a few things and set patterns. I think that is the reason in the third world that t...

EUNUCH - STRUGGLE FOR RECOGNITION

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Hello all, Recently, I watched a TV drama on “ARY Digital” with the title “Khuda Mera Bhi hai,” meaning “God is mine too”. The subject was the acceptance of eunuchs as children and citizens. Most civilized countries have no issues in this regard; people of this gender are living a satisfied life there, but in Asia, this gender is not treated as they deserve. We have a discriminatory attitude towards them. There was an era when they had a respected status in the palaces of Mughal emperors. In our society, a lot of people want to hear this sentence at the time of delivery: “Congratulations, it is a baby boy.” Few are satisfied with a baby girl, but the situation worsens when it is the third gender. Most parents refuse to accept such a child right after birth. They think that it is shameful to accept them and that society will make fun of this incident.  People assume such parents are unhealthy in a way that they are unable to give birth to a boy or a girl. This is a tra...

TO BE CONTINUED......

Hello all, “TO BE CONTINUED…..” I don’t know why, but whenever I saw these words at the end of any T.V program, I felt excited. It gives me hope that there is still something additional that could be more informative or entertaining. I like all sequels of movies: thrilling, science fiction, or romantic type. I love to watch every part, whether the first one was good or not. I think there is always a chance for excellence, and as it is said: “THE SHOW MUST GO ON!” Life is a teacher that taught us silently to grab the experience through passing moments. Continuity is also a lesson for me; I never gave up. At the end of every chapter of my life, I had hope that there is still something more interesting and meaningful on my way ahead. What is needed is the struggle, waiting, and not losing hope. It is my perception of life that death is the only end, and before that, there is no finish.   Disappointment is a curse that pulls out all our positivity and lets us wander i...

HOBBIES

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Hello all, Being human is excellent because we are not restricted to making efforts for our appetite and sleep only, but we have to feed our mind and soul for their refreshment. For this very reason, we have an urge to select some hobbies for self-satisfaction. People around us have many hobbies such as games, cooking, gardening, keeping pets, hiking, socializing, gossip, chatting, movies, and many more. Obviously, Android games are ahead of all and have made many people addicted. Hobbies are necessary for us to spend our spare time in some positive way, as we all know, “An empty mind is a devil’s workshop”. With the change in our routines, many things have changed. Once, ticket and coin collecting were very popular hobbies for many. In my school days, there was an old man sitting outside our school with three to four albums of tickets in his lap. Many boys, including one of my friends, Asif, were keen to sit there and search for something new to elaborate their collections. ...

INTOLERANCE

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Hello all, Intolerance We have been impatient for centuries, and it is in our instinct, but now intolerance has also complicated our behavior.  We as humans should take some positive criticism to promote our personality, but the situation is quite different. We do not even want to see such a person around us who is against our views. Such behavior of “I am perfect” is like living in a fool’s paradise. Nobody is perfect; we all have some flaws in our personalities. Each one of us is different from others; our perspective is different in our approach to some subjects and may vary every time. We should listen to others with patience, whether the opponent is true or not. Generally, it gives us the experience to understand others' personalities and views they have about us. Intolerance Intolerance is becoming a general behavior globally; internationally, it can be illustrated very easily. Recently, polling results are being criticized in developed and powerful countries. ...

INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY: ITS VALUE AND IMPORTANCE ACCORDING TO ME...

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INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY: ITS VALUE AND IMPORTANCE ACCORDING TO ME... Hello all, Women's Day  8 th March is “Women’s Day”, a day to remember the continuous struggle of this gender for their rights. The world is celebrating the day to salute and acknowledge the worth they have. This day has been celebrated since 1914. We must not celebrate the day as a formality (as many do), but we need to admit their importance in our society. If you do not admit it, they are still vibrant in their roles. A Woman A woman is kind when she is a mother, a guide as a teacher, a friend as a sister, a partner as a housewife, dedicated to duties as a co-worker, and so on. They ruled, they played, served, conquered, entertained, and succeeded in all the ways of life, but were less appreciated than they deserved. It took a long time to win recognition. Give this attitude an end and state a new way of equality and appreciation. Being a father of two loving girls and a naughty boy, I f...