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Emotional Frustration Hello all, Frustration Frustration was once known as anxiety and found in disturbed people only. Those who suffered from it were treated sympathetically by normal people. These days it becomes a routine in the life of many around the world.  Though people living in developed countries face less of it still it is there with different shapes. There is a global reason for uncertainty and disturbance between countries. Global warming, the race for nuclear power, and Socio-economical conditions are also one of the reasons. How it is affecting us? These big words were once meant to think tanks and superior heads of countries but now the media shares each and every news of the world to the public. The positive aspect of this is “awareness” i.e. requirement of the time. But the negative impact is, that sometimes a little incident affects a lot of a common person.  For example, if there is a planning of a coup in some country and there is a severe ...

Manipulative Games Hello all, Tech World Technology is everywhere and we are blessed to be a part of this modern age. This is not the end and there are vast opportunities ahead. Machines and equipment make our life easy. We can approach anybody around the world within seconds. Powerful machines are ready to solve our all problems. 3-D printers are helping to build from small instruments to sky rises. The Internet is there to spread information, knowledge, and entertainment. Smartphones replace many types of equipment. Watches, calculator, calendar, and physical trainer are required for status show-off only. Changing Behaviours In the age of growing technologies and if I do not exaggerate, everything seems possible in this world. A few years back, children were bound to go outside to play soccer, cricket, baseball, badminton, and tennis in large playgrounds and streets. Large boards and tables were also required for Pool ball, Ludo, Carom, and table tennis. Then time change...

Hello all, Change is a necessary element of our life; it has a vital effect on seasons, people, days, and nights. Many people are revolutionary in nature and innovative in their lives. These types of people love to change themselves in a perfect way. This urge for change and perfectionism is the key to success and leads us to the way of self-grooming. These words like self-grooming, revolution, ambition, etc are undoubtedly big ones to say but when we bring them into our lives, they need not many efforts from a willing person. The introduction of the world to a newborn baby is the people, their behaviors, atmosphere, and surroundings.  Sometimes these things and the atmosphere is good, many time bad, and a few time awesome. We absorb our atmosphere in us and show our actions being manipulated by these surroundings. These are afterward called our habits; apart from fact that these are good or bad. After passing a little time in this, many of us go to school, high ...

Hello all, We have almost 2/3 of our planet covered with water but still, we are facing water scarcity. Well, it is a shortage of fresh drinking water that is required to fulfill our nutrient values and health. According to various surveys, around 1.2 billion people are facing this situation. At a rough count, it is almost 1/5 of the total world population. People living in urban and remote areas, both are facing the problem in different ways but in remote areas, it is worse. Mostly in remote areas, there is no water filtration system available to fulfill their needs. This severe condition constrains them to use polluted and unhygienic water from ponds, canals, and rivers. Ponds appear with rainwater, it is a bowl shape or pool-type area that collects the water during the rainy season. Both animals and humans drink and use the water from the same place leading them to different diseases. An old way of water source is to dig a well for freshwater but it is not much commo...

Hello all, Actually, our brought up is a little bit complicated and tricky in South Asia, parents put their incomplete desires to their children in the shape of toys or fun-based activities. Children learn and absorb from their surroundings. Whatever parents provide them, they made up their minds accordingly. Our incomplete desires or unachieved goals are like we want to be a doctor, singer, architect, or engineer but circumstances lead us to be a banker, teacher, or a 9 to 5 employee. So we made up our mind to complete this ambition in our children.  As parents, we manipulate our children to promote their interests according to our will. These activities draw the attention of a raw mind of a growing kid and later they became keen on this behavior. Well, I am not saying that these are not good activities; sometimes it is necessary but not always. My concern is that we make them restricted to a few things and set patterns. I think that is the reason in the third world, that...

Hello all, We observe many children wandering in the streets, they collect many re-usable items out of the trash for their earnings or beg all day long. According to statistics, the count of these children has reached almost 1.2 million in Pakistan. I think the count is more as we observe no survey in past many years. Approximately all of them are illiterate and homeless, due to many circumstances. Most of them are the children of homeless parents and a lot are run away from their homes, escaping from impropriate, abusive and violent attitudes of their parents or guardians. How one soft and a sympathetic-hearted person can oversee these barefooted children; doing work apart from the severity of the weather, whether it is hot or cold? They have no time to play, many beggars play and enjoy with each other while the traffic signal is green and starts to work as it turns into red. They have been deprived of all the basic needs i.e. food, cloth, education, home, and a better fut...

Hello all, Recently, I have watched T.V drama on “ARY digital” with the title “Khuda Mera Bhi hai” meaning “God is mine too”. The subject was acceptance of eunuch as a child and a citizen. Most civilized countries have no issues in this regard, people with this gender are living a satisfied life there but in Asia, this gender is not treated as they deserve. We have a discriminatory attitude towards them. There was an era when they have respectful status in the palaces of Mughal emperors. In our society, a lot of people want to hear this sentence at the time of delivery “congratulations, it is a baby boy”, there are few who are satisfied with a baby girl but the situation worsens when it is the third gender. Most parents refuse to accept such a child right after birth. They think that it is shameful to accept them and that society will make fun of this incident.  People assume such parents as unhealthy in a way that they are unable to give birth to a boy or a girl. Thi...

Hello all, Marriage is a social contract to bring two people altogether. It is a beautiful feeling and experience to enjoy the company of a new one in a romantic and loving environment. In Pakistan and India, mostly mediocre used to raise this topic and make fun by telling jokes on this topic or by making plans with their children since childhood. For most girls in remote areas, the favorite activity is to make arrangements for their doll’s marriage. The reason for this all is just to make them more curious about this relationship. That is why; this day becomes very memorable and full of excitement for all. Brides and grooms wish to make this day so special that it would remain in their memories as a mark of joy. In our society, the tradition of “Salami” by relatives is very popular. It is a contribution to the parents of the bride and groom to make arrangements for marriage. This “Salami” is according to the bonding of the relationship; the closer you are; the more contr...

Hello all, “TO BE CONTINUED…..” I don’t know why but whenever I saw these words at the end of any T.V program; I felt excited. It brings me to hope that there is still something additional that could be more informative or entertaining. I like all sequels of movies; thrilling, science fiction, or romantic type. I love to watch every part whether the first one was good or not. I think there is always a chance for excellence and as it is said: “THE SHOW MUST GO ON!”. Life is a teacher that taught us silently to grab the experience through passing moments. Continuity is also a lesson for me, I never gave up. At the end of every chapter of my life, I had a hope that there is still something more interesting and meaningful on my way ahead. What is needed is the struggle, wait, and not lose hope. It is my perception towards life that death is the only end and before that, there is no finish.   Disappointment is a curse that pulls out all our positivity and lets us wande...

Hello all, Being human is unique because we are not restricted to making efforts for our appetite and sleep only but we have to feed our mind and soul for their refreshment. For this very reason, we have an urge to select some hobbies for self-satisfaction. People around us have many hobbies such as games, cooking, gardening, keeping pets, hiking, socializing, gossip, chatting, movies, and many more. Obviously, android games are ahead of all and have made many people addicted. Hobbies are necessary for us in order to spend our spare time in some positive way as we all know “Empty mind is a devil’s workshop”. With the change in our routines, many things have changed. Once tickets and coin collecting were very popular hobbies for many. In my school days, there was an old man sitting outside our school with three to four albums of tickets in his lap. Many boys including one of my friends, Asif, were keen to sit there and search for something new to elaborate their collections. T...